January 18

Judy was up for physio, a shower, and a few short sessions in her chair today.  The palliative care coordinator for RUH and the palliative care doctor met with Judy today.  A decision was made to start Judy on a new anti nausea drug administered through a patch on her leg.  We will wait and see whether the drug is effective.  Wedding plans are falling into place.  The chapel is booked.  Flowers are being delivered.  The photographer is committed to the cause even though she had her own personal tragedy.  Apparently, her house burnt down.  Mary came to the house today to pick out a few dresses and shoes for Judy to wear. Alvin had his hair cut at Tragic Cuts. (When asked how I wanted my hair cut, I asked for the stylist to remove all the grey hairs and now I am bald). A special angel is making a cake.  The post celebration is planned.  The nurses have even created a space to have a post service get together at the hospital in case Judy is not well enough to join us at our home.  Judy loves these nurses and they love her.  We are overwhelmed by the love and support we continue to receive from every person who knows Judy's story. The outpouring of love and congratulatory messages Mary and Morgan have received has been heartwarming.  Joy in the midst of adversity.  Man, what a ride.