The day started out a little rough for Judy. The main source of discomfort is her lower back. By the time I arrived at the hospital after 3 pm, she was feeling better. Haley, Mary, and our niece, Michelle dropped by when they were done work. Visiting in the private ward is heavenly compared to visiting the previous accommodations. The main topic on the agenda was wedding plans.
Over the past week, Judy, in consultation with the girls, the palliative nurse coordinator, and the palliative doctor has made a decision to access palliative care at St. Paul's Hospital. Judy does not like to use the term" palliative" for obvious reasons. She prefers "symptom management"; therefore, Judy is waiting for a placement at the SMU...Symptom Management Unit at St Paul's. Everyone we talk to speaks very favorably about the SMU a.k.a. Palliative Care Unit. All the rooms are private, spacious, and comfortable. Parking is provided for the spouse. The staff are exceptional. The list goes on. Placement in the SMU depends on availability and severity of symptoms so we don't know exactly when Judy will be moved to St. Paul's.
For people who are emailing or texting Judy, please keep in mind replying to messages takes all the energy that Judy can muster. I am sure you understand that she will likely not be able to reply to messages messages sent to her. This is not to say, she shouldn't receive messages. Indeed, she loves hearing from her friends. Just don't expect Judy to reply. Every time I write one of these directives, I feel bad because it seems I have people fretting about whether they are doing the right thing. Trust me. I know you love Judy and you are doing your best. We are all trying to find our way and do what is best.
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