My beloved Queen died this evening around 7:30 pm. Our family gathered in Judy's room to begin saying good-bye. As I arrived at the room, there was a stain glass angel hanging on the door. As I entered the room, I saw Judy was lying peacefully with her left hand resting on a heart-shaped pillow placed upon her chest. Her right hand was placed over her tummy. A beautiful quilt with an angel was over her body. Judy looked as lovely as ever with her face being peaceful and serene. Mary combed her bangs just the way Judy would like them. We cried. We reminisced. Then we laughed. Most of the laughter was about choosing a new Queen. Some voted for David and some voted for Audrey. We had to phone David's son, Justin, to decide the matter. Justin appointed Judy's mother as the first Queen and played the fanfare whenever the Queen arrived. It was only fitting that he should choose the successor. He chose Audrey. We phoned David with the news of his defeat. As consolation, he will continue as Court Jester.
Each family member and their spouse had a turn alone with Judy before we parted. I asked Audrey to be the last to spend time with Judy alone because she has known Judy the longest. During my turn with Judy I thanked her for 34 wonderful years of marriage. I thanked her for making me a better man. God knew what He was doing when he joined Judy and I as husband and wife. I also promised her that I would continue, to the best of my abilities, the traditions that she upheld so faithfully. Most importantly, I told her that I love her and that's all that really matters.
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
Thank you
Our hearts go out to you. God bless you and your family during this hard time. She was a lovely lady and Heaven is fortunate to have her.
ReplyDeleteA wonderful woman! Gratitude for knowing her but deep sadness too. You're all in our prayers.
ReplyDeleteYour beautiful words capture Judy's amazing essence so perfectly Alvin. I am so thankful to have known Judy, and to have been touched by her gentle, elegant spirit. My most heartfelt condolences to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteAlvin, my deepest sympathy! Heaven has certainly gained a special angel like no other! It's a blessing to me seeing all the love shown within your family - particularly your 'Love Story'! I'm sure God will bless you, and your family, in His comfort during this time, and in the years ahead. Remember "Footprints"! My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family, Alvin!
ReplyDeleteAlvin, We share our sympathy with you. You have been such a tremendous husband for Judy.
DeleteShe has been such an amazing inspiration for me to live my life to the fullest. God bless you. We are praying for all of you.
Marj Moldon