January 17

Yesterday, I got a text from Mary's boyfriend Morgan.
Hey Alvin, how's it going?
Good, I just finished my housework.
Is it okay if I stop by your place?
Sure, come on over.
Morgan arrives.  Yes, Mary and I have been talking and we would like to get married.  Do I have your blessing?  Yes, Morgan, you have my blessing.  (Now let me state here that Morgan and Mary have been together for nearly 5 years if my memory serves me correctly.  Those 5 years have been the happiest years of my daughter's life.  Morgan loves Mary very much and treats her like the lady she is.  He would never do anything to hurt her.  He pretty much does what Mary tells him to do...similar to the relationship I have with Judy.)  Later yesterday, Morgan went to Judy's bedside and said to Judy, " I love your daughter very much and I would like your blessing to ask for Mary's hand in marriage.
Of course, Mary and Morgan would like to get married soon because they would like Judy to be a part of their marriage.  If all goes according to our impromptu plans, we will have a small private ceremony at RUH chapel on Thursday evening.  Judy's brother, David, will officiate.  Hopefully, the photographer who was going to do family pictures ( a gift Haley, Mary, and I gave Judy for Christmas) will photograph the event.
Judy had another rough night.  She began with a migraine and then fought nausea for half the night.  She got some rest and was up in the morning for some breakfast and a shower.  We visited later in the afternoon.  Haley, Dustin, Mary, Morgan, David, and I had a good visit with Judy, but she was quite exhausted by the time we left.
I know people are wanting to visit Judy, but visiting really takes more energy than she has right now.  If you are wanting to visit Judy, please consult with me before making plans to visit her.  Visits have to be very short.  Five to ten minutes will have to suffice.  If she is asleep, the visit should consist of looking at her beautiful face, blowing a kiss, and mouthing an "I love you".